If thatвЂ™s wrong, I donвЂ™t want to be right. WeвЂ™re still in the honeymoon stage of our relationship, so I think I still crave physical touch. But, that doesnвЂ™t stop me from wanting to be close to him. I can understand his want to head to bed. Instead, since heвЂ™s been up since 6:30 a.m. Is that so wrong? And, I know when heвЂ™s not interested it has nothing to do with me. Instead, after a long day of him and I working, I just like to lay on him. But, when it comes to cuddling, IвЂ™m the one who needs it more.Д«ut, the strange thing is I donвЂ™t need to cuddle after sex in order to feel fully satisfied. HeвЂ™s more so the affectionate one in our relationship. Most times, heвЂ™s the one hugging, kissing and poking me. When heвЂ™s not exhausted, heвЂ™s usually the one who mentions it first. I feel happier when IвЂ™m near him because my emotional need is being met.

Couples who use touch to comfort, to compliment, and yes, to seduce and arouse, are bound to be happier.вЂќ But, how much is too much?ДЄccording to the Huffington Post article titled Men Value Cuddling, Women Value Sex, Says New Research On Relationship Satisfaction, Aline Zoldbrod, a psychologist in Lexington, Mass., toldВ ABC NewsВ that touch in general is very important and, вЂњtouch from a person you love and trust is a major emotional resource and a way that people can regulate their emotions when they are upset. Like other girls, I like to feel safe and wanted. Sure, he likes to snuggle once in a while, but unlike me, he doesnвЂ™t want to do it every night. The thing I must learn is we cannot and will not always have cuddle sessions. But, then I complain that I just want to feel his touch and lay on his chest. And, at times, it can be too much for him on those nights heвЂ™s dead tired he desires nothing more than to sleep. I feel protected and loved at the same time. I love the sense of his big and strong arms around me. Whenever my boyfriend and I lounge around at night, I see it as an opportunity to cuddle.

Dont call me up at 6am to cuddle me